Today, we were talking about remembering things and Sam said, "When people ask how I have something memorized, I say I don't have it memorized. I just know. When you like something, you just know." He loves statistics and can always remember them after reading them in the newspaper or encyclopedia. He has no problem remembering all kinds of Lego facts after looking them up. He just knows.
This is why I advocate letting the kids find out things they want to find out. Isn't that what adults do? I don't mean that they only have to learn what they think they'd like, but there are ways of making almost anything interesting. As a parent, I let them see me being interested in different things and they feel like that's the way to be.
And it is.
Maybe even more important than that is my being interested in what they have to say. I love when Sam tells me all kinds of stuff about Legos. He knows that his interests are legitimate, so he can know everyone's interests are. If everyone's interests are legitimate, then maybe he ought to look into some of them. Be interested! Having questions means we want to learn more, so always help your kids answer their questions.
See you tomorrow!
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